Why Letting Go Is Not the Same as Giving Up
Letting go is not pretending someone did not matter. It is accepting that love, longing, and attachment are not enough when someone is not choosing you clearly.
Private psychological experiences
Letting go is not pretending someone did not matter. It is accepting that love, longing, and attachment are not enough when someone is not choosing you clearly.
Missing an ex is not always proof that the relationship was right. Sometimes it is attachment, grief, memory, and the nervous system adjusting to absence.
Sometimes the hardest part of a breakup is not missing someone. It is beginning to believe that your grief is becoming too much for everyone around you.